Rasams: The Special Frenzy of Desi Weddings

What is it about Pakistani weddings that sets them apart from the rest of the world?
Is it the vibrance? Is it the extension over an entire month? Is it the liveliness?

Well, the answer to all of these lies in one sole factor, the driving force, the reason why our weddings are so festive, our “RASAMS”. If you take a look at a Pakistani wedding, you’ll notice how different and intricate they are. Most are spread over three days, but the celebrations start a month before. From dholki nights every day to uptan, maiyon, mehndi, Pakistani weddings are a full package.

Suffice it to say, Pakistani weddings are incomplete without “rasams”. So while we’re at the topic, let’s dig a little deeper into how we went from a simple nikah and khana to an entire month of wedding festivities.

History and Origin of Rasams:
Rasams vary with places, ethnicity, and cultures, however, rasms like maiyon, mehndi are common for the majority. Each of these rasams has its own unique meaning and origin.

1. Doodh Pilai
2. Joota Chupa
3. Rasta Rukai
4. Ubtan/Maiyon
5. Dholki
6. Sehra Bandi
7. Mooh Dikhai
8. Maklava
9. Tawao

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